“I am not a prize to be won!”
When she knew what she wanted.
And an arranged marriage based solely on royal lineage wasn't appealing in the slightest.
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When she thwarted the restrictions placed upon her and did as she damn well pleased.
She was going to the marketplace, father's orders be damned.
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When she didn't let her "status" dictate how she treated others.
Heart of gold.
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When she wasn't all that impressed with the riches of "Prince Ali."
She recognizes peacocking when she sees it.
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